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When “just be reasonable” stops working.
Your ex suddenly changes the schedule. The kids stop answering calls. You’re accused of being the problem. Every conversation turns into conflict.
And somehow you’re expected to stay calm while your relationship with your children slowly shifts.
Here’s what that actually looks like, and what we do about it:
Your children are being withheld or used as leverage
Cancelled visits. Ignored agreements. Last minute excuses. When your children are being used as a bargaining chip, every day matters. We move quickly to protect your relationship with them before this becomes the new normal.
You’re suddenly the subject of an Intervention Order
One allegation can remove you from your home and affect every part of your time with your children. We help you respond strategically and stop a single allegation from defining your entire case.
You’re being intimidated, manipulated, or accused of parental alienation
Threats. Pressure. Using the children to send messages or create fear. Family violence isn’t always physical, and the Court takes these behaviours seriously. So do we.
You don’t know whether you need a parenting plan, consent orders, or a court order
This is the single biggest source of confusion for separating parents, and getting it wrong can leave you with an arrangement that isn’t actually enforceable when it matters most.
You don’t have to keep absorbing this.

How we fight for you when your ex is being unreasonable.
We see through the act
Charm, manipulation, playing the victim. We’ve seen it all, and we know exactly how to expose what’s really going on.
We build a case they can’t dismiss
Evidence. Strategy. Precision. We identify exactly what’s needed and build the strongest possible case around it.
We know how to take back control
High conflict people thrive on chaos, delay, and intimidation. We shut down the games early, take control of the process, and keep the pressure where it belongs.
We level the playing field
Urgent recovery orders. Contravention applications. Injunctions. We know how to use the Court’s powers strategically to protect your position early, not just respond after the damage is done.
We’re in your corner the whole way
Available when you need us. Straight with you always. We’ll guide you on how to respond so nothing you do compromises your case.
Your ex has been controlling things long enough.
Five things you can do to protect your relationship with your children
1
Keep everything in writing
Communicate via text or a parenting app only. Verbal conversations leave room for denial and distortion later.
2
Document everything
Keep a timeline of incidents, missed handovers, and conversations. Contemporaneous notes can become powerful evidence.
3
Don’t retaliate, even when provoked
Reacting badly hands the other side ammunition. Stay calm in writing, and let us handle the strategy.
4
Be careful what you disclose to third parties
What you say to support services, friends, or even on social media can be raised in proceedings. Not everything is as private as you think.
5
Get strong legal representation early
Delay gives the other side time to control the narrative and entrench an arrangement that becomes “the way things are.” Early strategy means a stronger position and fewer surprises.
What if you could resolve this without a fight?
Not every parenting matter should end in a courtroom war.
Melanie is one of a small number of lawyers in Victoria, and across Australia, fully trained and accredited in collaborative law. Where conditions are right, this gives you access to something most people in your situation simply don’t have.
Both sides commit to resolution before it begins
Both lawyers are trained in the process and agree upfront to work toward a mutually acceptable outcome. No posturing, no tactical games. If a settlement isn’t reached, neither lawyer can represent their client in court, so everyone at the table has one goal.
Open conversations, real solutions
Instead of entrenched positions and point scoring, collaborative law creates space for honest discussion about what each person actually needs. The result is an agreement built around your family’s real circumstances, not one imposed by a judge who doesn’t know them.
Where a workable resolution is genuinely possible, this approach lets you resolve parenting disputes strategically, privately, and with less damage to the children involved. But where it isn’t, we’re ready to fight just as hard in court.
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You won’t be disappointed!!!!!!Posted on Google Melinda VassettTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I cannot recommend Melmark Law highly enough! Melanie was absolutely incredible in helping me complete my parenting plan. She was professional, compassionate, and explained everything in a way I could easily understand. She always made me feel supported and kept me informed every step of the way. Thanks to her expertise and guidance, a process I thought would be stressful and overwhelming turned out to be smooth and manageable. I’m so grateful for her help and wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her to anyone needing legal assistance.Posted on Google Bianca FerraroTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I had the pleasure of working with Melmark Law, I cannot recommend them enough. From the very first consultation, I felt confident that I was in great hands. Melanie was not only highly knowledgeable but also incredibly responsive and attentive to my case. Melaine took the time to explain every detail and ensure I was comfortable throughout the entire process. Their professionalism and expertise truly stood out, and they achieved an excellent result for me. If you’re in need of legal assistance, I would highly recommend Melmark Law without hesitation.Posted on Google Dilmini GCCTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I reached out to Melanie at a time when I felt lost and overwhelmed. From our first conversation, she gave me the courage to face the challenges ahead. The legal process stretched over 14 long months, filled with unexpected twists and, at times, frustrating delays. Throughout it all, Melanie remained calm, professional, and committed, even when faced with pressure and threats from the other party. She always stood her ground and handled everything with integrity and care. 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What stood out most to me was Melanie’s deep knowledge of how to navigate the complexities of family law. She knows the systems inside and out and is particularly experienced in handling cases involving parental alienation, manipulation, and other sensitive matters that fathers often face. She approaches these issues with a level of care and expertise that truly sets her apart from others. Melanie and her team provide clear communication, transparent advice, and a strong sense of support throughout what can often be a difficult and emotionally taxing process. Her commitment to advocating for what’s best for her clients is evident in every step she takes. If you’re looking for a lawyer who not only understands the legal side but also genuinely cares about your well-being and outcome, MelMark Law is the place to go.Posted on Google Stacey NadarajahTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. "Melanie” @ Melmark Law, was a beacon of hope to my family. 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Frequently asked questions
What’s the difference between a parenting plan, consent orders, and a court order?
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents that isn’t legally enforceable. Consent orders are filed with and approved by the Court, making the agreement legally binding without needing a hearing. A court order is made by a judge after a contested hearing, where parents can’t agree. Each has a different level of protection, and we advise on which is right for your situation.
My ex is withholding the children. What can I do?
Depending on the circumstances, you may be able to apply for a recovery order, which directs the children be returned and can involve police assistance. The Court can act urgently where there’s genuine risk of a child being withheld or relocated without consent.
Can I apply for urgent parenting orders?
Yes. Where there’s a genuine risk to a child’s safety or wellbeing, or where one parent is unilaterally withholding contact, the Court can hear urgent applications without waiting for the usual timeframes.
What happens if my ex breaches our parenting orders?
You can bring a contravention application, asking the Court to enforce the existing orders. Penalties can include makeup time, fines, or in serious or repeated cases, changes to the existing arrangement.
What is parental alienation, and does the Court recognise it?
Parental alienation refers to one parent deliberately undermining a child’s relationship with the other parent. While not a standalone legal term, the Court takes seriously any behaviour that damages a child’s relationship with a parent, and this can directly influence parenting orders.
Can my ex relocate with our children interstate or overseas without my consent?
Generally, no, not without either your consent or a court order. If you’re concerned about an unauthorised relocation, urgent injunctions may be available to prevent it before it happens.
Does an Intervention Order automatically affect my parenting arrangements?
Not automatically, but it can significantly impact your time with your children while it’s in place, and how the Court views the matter going forward. Responding to an IVO strategically from the outset is critical.
At what age can my child decide who they want to live with?
There’s no fixed age. The Court considers a child’s views as one of several factors, with the weight given increasing as the child gets older and demonstrates maturity, but it’s never the only deciding factor.
Do grandparents have any rights to see their grandchildren?
Grandparents can apply to the Court for parenting orders if they’re being denied contact, though there’s no automatic entitlement. The Court considers what’s in the best interests of the child, which can include a meaningful relationship with grandparents.
Will I have to go to court, or can this be resolved privately?
Many parenting disputes resolve through negotiation, mediation, or collaborative law without ever reaching a courtroom. Court becomes necessary where there’s a genuine risk to a child, repeated non-compliance, or where one party refuses to engage in good faith.